My girlfriend wants me to go to 2 weddings in 1 day. Am I crazy by saying I only want to go to one?

David Boehler: These are her friends and you're the plus one so it's really up to your girlfriend to decide how she wants to do this.

Dewey Heersink: I totally agree with you! That's way to much to go through for one day, and definately rude to skip out! Just pick one and stick with it!

Armanda Hertel: NOPE!!!! TOOOOO many weddings to go to in one day

Marcel Then: You should go to the ceremony of her childhood friend, staying long enough to congratulate her and her new husband, then you should go to the ceremony and reception of the mutual friend. If you miss the second wedding, you'll get there in time for the reception, which is the fun part anyway.If you BOTH decide you'd really rather attend just one wedding, then attend the one of a mutual friend. RSVP back to her childhood friend "with regrets," and send a card and small gift.Stop being the "typical guy," because the typical guy is rude, crass, tactless, thoughtless, selfish, and immature. Instead,! be a MAN and just suck it up. Being an adult means doing things that are often inconvenient and occasionally unpleasant, because it is the mature and socially correct thing to do....Show more

Coleman Petropoulos: I think "It is a lot of work" or "I'm your typical guy" is a lame excuse. Anyway, how can it be harder to drive from wedding A to reception B than to drive from wedding B to reception B?The "rude to both parties" argument carries some weight, but really, if you're there at the reception, the people at the second wedding will hardly notice you weren't there at the ceremony.I think she's worked out a good compromise and you should go with it....Show more

Sol Allphin: He said one of the weddings if of a mutual friend so he knows that person as well.My adviceI think going to a wedding reception and not the wedding is rude its like saying im here for a free feed not not you.I would is possible go to 2 weddings & the reception of the 2nd wedding How far apa! rt are the weddings?If its a matters of a few mins I would sit! near the back of the church & offer you congrats to the couple then go to the next wedding(I would tell the bride of the 1st wedding now that you would not be able to make it the reception) if how ever it is going to take longer to get to the 2nd wedding then 10 mins by the you will not make it!Or pick 1 wedding(and only go to that reception) and just sent a note and gift to the wedding people you don't go 2Talk to your Gf and work out something your both happy with...Show more